40th Birthday Post: The 10 things I want to figure out (accomplish?) by 50

These lists can get awfully self-indulgent, but I'll try not to do that here.

I've done these posts before and they can get self-indulgent and I feel like I often say similar things, so I'm going to take a new track and try to be a little more direct and honest in this one. Hopefully it works out and serves as a baseline of accountability for me going forward here a little bit.

By the way, one of the most self-indulgent things I'v…