Age-wise, 30 to 35 is where lives will get divergent

There's a seven-or-so-year span where most of your connections are going to shift in some way, often majorly.

Back on October 1, 2014 I wrote a post called "Can you make friends after 30?" If I'm doing some basic math correctly, I would have been 33 when I wrote that. I'm now 37. Here's what happened in the intervening time:

• Most of my friends changed

• I got divorced

• Getting divorced teaches you a ton about who's really there for you vs. who's not, so my friends sh…