"But WHAT Are You Sacrificing?"

It’s usually friendship, and there’s usually a lot of virtue-signaling around it all.

I often feel as if I’ve spent the majority of my adulthood being confused and adrift, often lonely, and trying to get a few people here and there to understand where I am coming from. I think more people feel like this than we would readily admit. What most people do, I think, is consume themselves with tasks and busy all week — work, errands, “gotta ge…