James Holmes' parents, Robert and Arlene, probably shouldn't be talking about the death penalty

You might have seen this: James Holmes' parents, Robert and Arlene, are saying he should be spared the death penalty -- and a trial -- and instead just be institutionalized.

First things first: if your child is one of the major American 'crime horror stories' of the past decade, the decisions you make can sometimes be perplexing. Peter Lanza ended up giv…