We need a more modern definition of masculinity

When Jim's mom dies or his wife leaves him, we are allowed to discuss it.

I've written about masculinity a few times -- one of my favorite posts of my own ever is "The boys don't cry problem of work," and I've also talked about the central male issue of achievement vs. fulfillment -- and, in general, I think masculinity is pretty broken. Look at #MeToo as the major example. The other major example would be: "Work is still mos…