“We’d Never Post OUR Baby On Instagram. Too Many Crazies!”

This attitude often lasts less than 72 hours.

One interesting thing about aspirational fatherhood that goes nowhere biologically is that, if you meet a bunch of guys who have “gotten there,” and you ask them to describe what it’s like “in the room” on their first kid, most of them cannot do this. It could be the case that I just don’t know many guys who are good with words; that could be true. You …