What If You View Sex As Failure?

"Intimacy, in a time of questions."

I’ll just come out and be blunt about some of this: in my own fertility journey, which is now leading to a seeming 2/18 IVF commencement date, a couple of times I’ve had trouble getting it up / getting aroused in a moment of potential intimacy. Why is this? Lots of reasons, honestly. (1) would be that I’m slightly older, i.e. 41. I work out pretty consi…