When vs. If | "Normalcy"

It's also worth asking: What exactly is normal?

I got the first call about male infertility while drunkenly loading a washing machine in the first quarter of 2021; my numbers were low and I needed to go talk to a specialist. I’ve been on that roller coaster for three years. My wife has joined me at times, there’s been antagonism at times, there’s been tears at times, once we went to Fiji, there’s bee…