When Your Friends Struggle, Do You Actually Fucking Show Up?

Or do you hide behind the conventional tropes?

I’ve written a metric ton about infertility in the past 16 months, including this 24-minute-read opus, so I won’t belabor much here. I’m sure some people who read my stuff think this is all a bit “woe is me” and maybe it is, so I’ll try to make these points quickly.

The “1” and “0” problem

This applies to a lot of “hot take” topics of the modern moment, b…